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Her 19-year-old daughter got pregnant with a total loser, so her mother refuses to let them stay because she’s done raising kids » TwistedSifter

Her 19-year-old daughter got pregnant with a total loser, so her mother refuses to let them stay because she’s done raising kids » TwistedSifter

It’s always sad to see a family member go down the wrong path with someone you know is not good for them.

Imagine how you feel when your daughter makes what you consider a huge mistake.

Yes…not good…

This is exactly what this woman is struggling with, and she is tired of being sidestepped.

Is she too strict?

Read on and let us know what you think.

“My daughter Rose 19 has always been a smart girl. She did well in school and got a full scholarship to a great school that is local. She lived with me and went to school and did well in school.

She is not thrilled with this new discovery…

A few months ago she got herself a new boyfriend that I don’t like. I can smell that shit. He keeps letting her down but he covers it up with a big smile and big promises.

Despite my warnings, they continued dating, and now she’s pregnant. I offered to pay for the abortion and take a few days off work to take her and help her recover. She said no. She’d marry her boyfriend and they’d be one big, happy family.

It’s getting worse…

He wants to move into my house and she’ll drop out of school while he works to support them. He’s a bartender who didn’t go to college. I laughed at the idea, which pissed her off.

She told me that since he can’t move in, I’ll have to get more involved and help with the baby. Hey, she’s always been a very sensible child, I don’t know where all this came from.

I told her straight up that if she thinks she is old enough to have and raise a child and get married, then she should move out soon and come to terms with adult life with the father of the child.

Sorry, those are the rules!

I raised the one child I wanted. I don’t want any more children living in my house. I told her I’d pay for diapers here and there and still visit her, but that child is 0% my responsibility.

If she decides to adopt, which I’m sure she wouldn’t, I’d be happy to help her deal with it.

She doesn’t want to talk to me. My husband (her stepdad) stays out of it but thinks I could help more. I told him he could come and take care of her and that shut him up.

“Is it true?”

See how Reddit users reacted.

This reader shared his thoughts.

Another reader shared his story.

This person said he was NTA.

One person agreed.

And this individual spoke up.

Not in my house!

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